Back , and i remembered what i'm supposed to blog about .
Yes , okay , 2009 hasn't been a good year , and i SHOULD have included this question on my poll .
Would you rather contract H1N1 and die or not ?
A. YES , no hope already .
B . NO , i'm too young to die ! There's still alot of things to complete !
C . 50/50 , mad confused if i want to live or not .

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So yeah , i'd choose C ^^

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Back to what i wanted to blog about , the big R word .
yep , RELATIONSHIPS .

To me , in my opinion , whats important in a relationship is :

1. Mutual Trust .
- Why ? Because if there isn't trust , there will not be anything ! I mean , look at it this way , You claim you love her/him , and yet you are having suspicions that he/she will cheat on you , WHATS THE POINT . You have to trust her/him first and foremost , cause that's like the first step . Who would want to have a relationship with nothing but lies ? BIG FAT LIES ?! Trust is important between you and your significant other . Really , its what most girls would place first in their r/s . I'm not sure about guys but yeah , tops on girls . THROW THE JEALOUSY / GREEN EYED MONSTER OUT THE WINDOW AND TRUST ! To me , No trust = No love .

2. Love . True , PURE love .
- Not the kind of love as in " Hey babe , i love you " on the outside , " I love your money / body / etc , not you bitch " on the inside kinda love , but the kind that is pure , strong , simply extraordinary . The kind of love which is simply indescribable . Something so strong , it'll break thru boundaries . I'd like to make a correction to this quote , " love has no boundaries " . It should rather be , " PURE love has no boundaries " . You have to love that someone for who she/he is , not for what she/he has or anything materialsitc , etc . Sure , i may sound SUPER CLICHE , and you might say , GAWD , ITS THE TWENTY-FIRST CENTURY ALREADY and blah3 . Well , if HURTING people is what you call the TWENTY-FIRST CENTURY TREND , then count me out . Cause i'd rather truly love someone , feel special and be truly loved in returned , rather than having false claims about love . Just the thought of it irks me .

3. Space
- Not breaking up that kinda thing , but just cause your in a r/s , doesn't mean that your guy/girl shouldn't have her/him's space . Let your guy/girl hang out with friends , go out , slack or wtv with their homies . If there's trust , then there will be space . It comes naturally . Cause you'll let your guy / girl have fun without having to be there , without having any worries that he/she will cheat on you or sth . Cause you BELIEVE that she / he loves you and will never do such a DESPICABLE thing , like cheating on you , etc .

4 . ONLY YOU&HER/HIM time
- Yep , this is esp essential in all relationships . Once in a while , spend time together . ALONE , only YOU GUYS . No friends around , nothing . It'll pay in your relationship , major brownie points in being a great balancer of time for your guy/girl & your pals ! So , if you have free time or anything , and your friends ain't free , spend it with him / her !
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5 . YOUR ALONE time .
- & lastly , pamper yourself ! Reward yourself for being such a GREAT girl/boyfriend ! You can't always cater to others you know ! There's still the awesome YOU (;


So the next time you have a relationship problem , it might be that you guys are lacking in one of those factors .
Wishing all the other couples out there , good luck , last long ! ((:

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& that reminds me on how much i love you , my boy .
Sigh , i miss you .

xoxo.